There are a number of professionals who specialize in working with seniors to address a variety of problems. Geriatric Care Managers (www.caremanager.org) are individuals with experience in helping the elderly and their families with problem solving and finding resources. These care managers are typically nurses or social workers who are familiar with the aging process. They can assist with coordinating services, assessments for physical and mental competency, locating and evaluating alternative living situations, and arranging and monitoring in-home help.
The National Academy of Elder Law Attorneys (www.naela.org) is comprised of attorneys who specialize in legal issues affecting the elderly and disabled. Examples of legal problems include: insurance issues, executing advanced directives, conservatorships, and benefit and pension problems
Senior Real Estate Specialists (www.seniorrealestate.com) are qualified to counsel seniors with life transitions involving relocating, refinancing, or selling the family home.
Some days, conversations are positive and productive. At other times, little is accomplished. Remember, things change. New information can make a difference. Throughout the process, it is important to keep the channels of communication open so that ongoing discussion is possible. What matters most is that we are able to stay in touch and stay involved in the lives of those we love.
Dr. Jim McCabe is the president of Eldercare Resources, an estate-planning firm that specializes in working with elderly clients and their families. Dr McCabe has a practice in Scottsdale, AZ.