Memory problems are only part of the equation when it comes to Alzheimer's disease. Boredom, depression, wandering, anxiety issues – caregivers of people with Alzheimer's are faced with many challenges in trying to keep their loved one safe and reasonably occupied. Then there is the need for the caregiver to be constantly present. Even the most dedicated caregiver can get a little stir crazy if there is no life beyond the walls of home life with a spouse or parent with Alzheimer's.
Adult day care is often a boon to people in this situation. During the routine of day to day life, it's easy to forget the need for peer socialization for both the caregiver and the care receiver. Once the caregiver finds a good adult day care center, these issues can be addressed. Both caregiver and care receiver can gain from the services of a good day care center.
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Adjustment Period
I've spoken with many caregivers who say their elder, once adjusted to the new day care setting, truly enjoys going out two days a week, or even every week day. The multiple activities offered in a good center are one reason. The chance to be with other elders is another. For some people with Alzheimer's, day care – or day services, as some are called – can represent a reason to get up in the morning. It's something to do. If it's part of a routine, so much the better.
Feeling Useful
Some people are delighted to reach an age when they can retire. Yet, many, after a few weeks or months of doing whatever they want, they begin to miss having a reason to get out of bed in the morning. That feeling pushes many people into a volunteering mode. It's no different for someone with Alzheimer's disease. They, too, want to feel useful. Adult day care is often referred to as a "club," or someplace to volunteer. And good centers do offer these elders a chance to accomplish something. They promote a sense of purpose.
Interaction with All Ages
One center near my home has a childcare center attached. For the folks with Alzheimer's, a chance to interact with a child can give them this sense of purpose. Because the centers are professionally run, there is always someone present in case the elder or the child has had enough fun and it's time for a change. No matter how short the time spent, feeling useful to a child can be a boon to someone who feels depressed and useless.
Reminiscing
Many centers also provide activities to encourage elders to reminisce. They show old movies, play music the elders will likely find familiar, and play simplified games specifically aimed at stimulation without frustration. The goal is to help the elder succeed when possible, and feel reasonably content. Specially made puzzles with large, sturdy pieces that when put together will represent old-time cars or recognizable celebrities can help make the elder's day seem more meaningful. Baking is often a favored activity, even if all the elder can do is roll cookie dough.