Living Wills, Power of Attorney and Other Documents for Seniors

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What types of Advance Care Planning Documents do you need?

  • Advance Directive – Living Will and Medical Powers of Attorney Advance Directive is a general term used to describe two types of documents – living wills and medical powers of attorney. These planning documents allow you to convey the type of care you want if you cannot speak for yourself including the extent to which you want life-sustaining medical treatments, and who should make those decisions if you cannot. Advance directives are not only focused on what treatments you don't want, they also should include all of the treatments you do want.
  • Living Wills (sometimes called medical directives) are written instructions for care in the event that you are not able to make medical decisions for yourself. Currently, 47 states and the District of Columbia have laws authorizing living wills. State law, however, can vary on signing requirements and other aspects of a living will, so it is important to check on your state's requirements when completing a living will.
  • Power of Attorney (sometimes called a health care or durable power of attorney) is a document that appoints a particular person as a health care proxy or health care agent to make health care decisions for you if you are unable to do so yourself (not just during a terminal illness).
  • A health care proxy is your substitute decision-maker. All 50 states and the District of Columbia have laws recognizing health care powers of attorney. Some specify the types of decisions that health care proxies can make.
  • Do Not Resuscitate (DNR) is a physician's order that is written in a person's medical record indicating that health care providers should not attempt life-saving measures such as cardiopulmonary resuscitation (CPR) in the event of a cardiac arrest, a heart attack, or respiratory arrest. A request for a DNR can be included in your planning documents, or communicated directly to your physician. Also, most health care facilities have a Do Not Resuscitate order policy and forms that a hospital professional can help you with if you choose this option after being admitted to a hospital.
 
 
 

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tcolling

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Apr 7, 2010

This is a great article. Planning ahead is one of the most powerful, and yet most often overlooked, tools for Seniors and their families.
Tim
www.TrustworthyCare.com

 
 

Heatherj43

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May 21, 2010

Strangely we were lucky and my mom had some kind of stroke that placed her in the hospital. They guided my sister and I with questions about her care that we just never thought about, like do we want a NRA and if she should forget how to eat do we want them to use a tube or just keep her comforatable while she dies.
My sister and I then were able to discuss these things and not at the last moment have to make such hard decisions.
We do not want measures that will keep her alive in a vegatative state and we will let her die comforatbly if she forgets how to eat. The rest of the family have heard our decisions and all have their own thoughts, but too bad. I know if my mom fogets how to eat, there is no chance she will ever remember again and to keep her alive because of our own selfishness is just not fair to her.
I find a lot of my family members will do just about anything to keep my parents alive just so they don't have to grieve and bury them. It is selfish in my opinion.
I am glad I have at least one sister who GETS it and is ready, as I am, to make these tough choices. She has guardianship of my mom. No one has guardianship of my dad yet. He is 93 and my mom is 83.
Many family members act like they are going to live forever. The denial is high!! My sister and I are the care givers and we do know they have little time left. The rest of the family are just in denial. My own 32 year old daughter bought my mom a novel the other day as a gift. My mom hasn't been able to read in a few years. Another niece took her out for 3 hours. My mom cannot be out that long. My niece was shocked as to how quickly my mom tired out. All of them are shocked when they see that my dad cannot get up from a sitting position by himself, yet they keep fogetting it. They also think both of my parents know who they are. My parents have no idea who any of us are. We tell them. Sometimes my mom will take me aside and ask me, so she won't hurt the person's feelings.
We keep family pictures around with the names of the people on the front, it helps my mom a lot in remembering who they all are, but she will tease my dad all the time and ask him, in front of the person, "do you know who that is?"!! She does that when she herelf doesn't know.
He stumbles and just shrugs his shoulders. I tell her its not fair!!
I address them when I walk in the house by saying "Hi daddy (or mom) its Heather". It saves them the fear and embarassement.

 
 

icare

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Jun 1, 2011

How true that addressing these issues with ones parents is difficult. But it is so important to do so. My own experiences with my elderly parents during the past 6 years challenged my logic and personal and emotional balance. Thank goodness I had the most important forms when I needed them. It wasn't just about having authority and knowing what to do. It was about honoring my parents' wishes and being able to be pro-active.
Marky

 
 

lildeb

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Feb 23, 2012

We could not get the mnl to talk about this so we started discussing about how ourself would like to be buried and etc. That got her into the subject and she told us what she wanted as for when that time comes.

 
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