If your parent has to go to the hospital, some extra guidelines may help. First, most hospitals have a daily schedule. Knowing the hospital routine can make your parent's stay -- and your visits -- more comfortable. Find out how much choice you have about daily routine and express any preferences you have about the schedule. Doctors generally visit patients during specific times each day. Find out when the doctor is likely to visit so you can be present and have your questions ready.
In the hospital, your primary doctor and various medical specialists, as well as nurses and other health professionals, may examine your parent. If you are in a teaching hospital, doctors-in-training known as medical students, interns, residents, or fellows, also may examine them. Many of these doctors-in-training already have a lot of knowledge and experience. They may be able to take more time to talk with you than other staff. Nurses are an important source of information, especially since you will see them often.
Questions to ask medical staff in the hospital:
- How long can Mom/Dad expect to be in the hospital?
- When will we see the doctor?
- What doctors and health professionals will we see?
- What is the daily routine in this part of the hospital?