Here are some steps to insure that your parent's advance care planning is carried out:
- Complete a living will and a medical power of attorney. If possible, you should consult with a lawyer or other professional regarding specific state laws or regulations related to these planning documents.
- Ensure that your family and other important people in your life understand what your parent's wishes are, and what is included in these documents. It is particularly important to discuss your mom and dad's decisions with the individual who will be the health care proxy to be sure he/she is comfortable with that role, and can be available to carry out wishes.
- Keep your parents' planning documents easily accessible and in multiple places. Consider having mom or dad carry a wallet card. Give copies to family members, friends, the physician's office, and/or lawyer if appropriate. It is critical that the health care proxy has a copy, or can access a copy quickly, if there is an unexpected emergency.
- Review your parents' plans periodically to be sure they are still satisfied with their decisions, and the health proxy is still able and willing to be responsible for carrying out their plans.
For more information visit the
National Clearinghouse for Long-Term Care Information
website.